Morality and Christian Marriage
1 Corinthians 7:1-9 (5/30/2021) Pastor Joel Dover
Morality and Christian Marriage
Helping one another to live moral lives by committing to the obligations of marriage.
1 Corinthians 7:1-9
Getting Started:
1. Let’s begin by re-reading 1 Corinthians 7:1-9 and refresh our memories about
this week’s focal text. Take your time and really let the text sink in.
2. Did you learn anything new from this week’s message that you want to share with
the group? How were you challenged? What one thing really stood out to you?
3. Was there anything that you heartily agreed or disagreed with in this week’s
sermon...and why?
Exploring the Text:
1. Someone in the Corinthian Fellowship had written to Paul in order to
receive instruction for the church regarding sexual immorality in their
Fellowship. What does this imply about some of the marital relationships
at Corinth and both sexual purity and marital health in the body?
2. We learned this week that sexual immorality should not be excused or
ignored in a Christian’s life, but often we hear Believers making excuses
for their sins. Romans 13:13-14 instructs us to make no provision for the
flesh. What does this mean, and how does this relate to Paul’s admonition
to the Corinthians? What even is a “provision” and how would we make a
provision for the flesh?
3. We discovered this week that intimacy in marriage isn’t only about passion
and pleasure, but is also God’s cure for the disease of sexual immorality.
How is intimacy in a Christian marriage a part of God’s plan to promote
holiness in our own lives, and more importantly, in the lives of our spouse?
How does my partner’s purity depend on me?
Morality and Christian Marriage
1 Corinthians 7:1-9 (5/30/2021) Pastor Joel Dover
4. Paul identified two important keywords for our marital relationships:
Affection and Authority. Why is it important that we render affection to one
another in marriage, and what did Paul mean by saying that the spouse
has authority over our bodies? How should this practically impact a marital
relationship?
5. Dictionary.com defines fraud as: deceit, trickery, sharp practice, or breach
of confidence, perpetrated for profit or to gain some unfair or dishonest
advantage. How is withholding affection and intimacy in a marriage a form
of fraud? How is a marriage different from other relationships...like a
strong friendship?
6. Paul wrote about an exception to the intimacy rule and stated that there
are times when a husband and wife could refrain from the usual obligations
of marriage. Looking again at verses 5-8, let’s identify the four specific
terms and conditions that govern a “break” from marital intimacy, and the
only Biblical reason for taking one.
7. According to Paul, under what conditions is a person in good standing with
God to remain single, and under what conditions should a person seek a
spouse? Hint: Verses 8-9.
Digging Deeper:
1. James writes about the process of falling to temptation in Jas 1:13-15. In
this text, he likens the fall to a child being birthed. There are three steps
outlined by James. Let’s identify them and discuss them as it relates to our
focal text this week.
a. A person is D_____ A______ by his own desires and enticed.
b. When desire is C_________ it gives birth to S___.
c. Once sin is full grown it brings forth D_______.
2. When Christians think about infidelity in marriage, often we automatically
think of a cheating spouse. Based on our study this week, how could a
spouse be considered unfaithful to the marriage by not rendering the
Morality and Christian Marriage
1 Corinthians 7:1-9 (5/30/2021) Pastor Joel Dover
affection required from a marriage? Is it legitimate to consider this a form
of marital infidelity?